Some children have their career chosen by their parents who groom them for it, fully expect them to go into it, and would express shock, grave disappointment, and anger should their child reject it. Well known examples are military officers, doctors, dentists, lawyers, accountants, human resource managers, librarians, small business owners, plumbers, electricians, auto mechanics, aircraft mechanics, printing press operators, textile machine operators, and shoemakers. It appears to be happening more often with professional athletes and entertainers. The pre-set life leaves no wiggle room and can make an adult child feel like a cow led to the slaughter through a compression shute that directs all movement in one direction. I have counseled many clients who come to me feeling boxed in and fed up by their career choice, especially those who were pressured by parents to make the “choice” in a way that pleased the parents. At some point they may become ready to choose the uncertain path. Only the uncertain path is strewn with surprises, discoveries, revelations, and new opportunities. These light up the path like fireflies in the darkness. Although some fear and anxiety may creep in, the light brings excitement, hope, and new visions of what is possible and enjoyable. This choice to deviate from the pre-set life is illustrated by these lines in Robert Frost’s poem: Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference. Ultimately each person gets to choose his way in the world and take responsibility for it. Those who surrender this right generally feel resentment.